Thought For The Week: “The man [or woman] who is the master of patience is the master of everything else.” George Savile

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Advice for Young Lawyers On How to Achieve Success

Recently I have read several advice columns for newly-minted lawyers. This kind of mentoring never goes out of style and a lot of it never changes. Law is a profession slow to evolve.

The truth is that how to be a successful lawyer is not covered in law school. Most lawyers you know will agree with this, and the ABA Journal recently reported on a survey finding that 73% of the attorneys surveyed agreed that law school did not adequately prepare them for the realities of legal practice.

Law schools are focused on teaching students about the law but do not spend much time on how to function well and successfully as a lawyer. If law school got down to the practicalities, however, it might need to become a four-year grind. And I doubt anyone wants that, especially the students themselves — and anybody else who is paying for it.

So how are newly-minted lawyers to get the practical skills to survive in a very demanding profession?

My most recent book, New Lawyer Launch: the Handbook for Young Lawyers, is a good place to start. It includes advice for both law graduates and law students on how to hit the ground running at law firms, and a lot of the advice also translates to other venues of law practice. For more information about the book, see my website at www.bestfriendsatthebar.com.

As much as I hope you read my book, I do not have a monopoly on this type of advice. So I have included below snippets from other recent sources to complete your education!

From Original Jurisdiction:
*Act like you want to make partner [because some day you might want it].

*Take the initiative in your cases or deal [in other words, act like a partner].

*Acknowledge receipt of emails.

*Be discrete in discussions about client confidences — in public places like elevators and restaurants.

*If your business clients watch CNBC, you watch it, too!

From Pursuing Justice and Above The Law:
*Come early to work to give yourself time to settle [before the craziness begins].

*Get the paid version of Grammarly and always use the active voice.

*Get published — even if you start small.

*Go to lunch with your colleagues and get a hobby.

And I might add, become proficient with AI and other new technologies affecting law practice. In that one regard, law practice is changing very, very fast.

There you have it! Pay attention to the advice from seasoned lawyers as an investment in your future. And think about my book as a perfect stocking stuffer for family and friends! I am a shameless self-promoter!

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Thought For The Week: “The decline of a people begins with the decay of their morals.” Plato

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The Benefits of Public Service and Why We Want to Keep Them

Public service is so important, especially for the youth of America, that I find myself advocating for mandatory public service after college to help our youth grow up and decide what they want to be in this complicated world. I think it would be a huge benefit to their focus and direction.

And I believe that those benefits of public service also apply to newly minted lawyers. Although I would not go so far as to make that service mandatory, I do think it might be helpful.

Public service is an important path for legal professions both as an experience and as a career. There are so many ways to practice law in the public sector, so many ways to influence public policy and the process of enacting laws and regulations that affect the people. It is a tremendous growth experience, particularly if the leadership is strong and well-intentioned.

Public service has a long run in my family, for which I am very proud. My father, my husband, and my son all join me in our experiences as public service lawyers. My husband and son chose the Department of Justice and the US Attorneys Office, respectively, and my father was a US Army lawyer and judge on the western front during WWII and later became a District Attorney. I will get to me later.

“Doing good” and ‘making a difference” are not the only reasons for public service. Since 2007, it also has become a path to student loan forgiveness for service of ten years or more. The Public Service Loan Forgiveness Program was enacted by bipartisan legislation under President George W. Bush and was intended to help a variety of public service providers, from public school teachers to government employees to fire fighters and those who work at food banks. It has been a strong motivation for many young lawyers to enter public service, especially as the cost of legal educations has increased at rates that could not have been imagined and cannot be justified.

Unfortunately, however, there is talk by the current Administration of ending that important benefit, partially, I believe, to weaponize against the legal profession. I find that highly inappropriate, and I sincerely hope that it does not come to pass. However, even if it becomes the subject of an Executive Order, be of good faith. Times change and administrations come and go.

For both lawyers and non-lawyers, there are so many not-for-profit organizations to choose from. A thorough Internet search will reveal opportunities that might appeal to you. However, a recent November 10, 2025 article in the Washington Post makes it clear that, because of the large number of resignations and firings at the federal level, particularly the DOJ, there may be few opportunities available in federal government at this time.

As a result public service in state and local governments may take on greater interest. Many of the issues that affect Americans most are at the state and local levels, and the opportunities to affect public policy there is very gratifying. For those very reasons, I chose to serve in local government for eight years of my career when the requirements of billable hours in private practice did not mix well with the demands of motherhood. As the Chief of Staff for an elected lawmaker, I had an opportunity to protect my community and safeguard things I knew to be important and critical. And that experience led to many other opportunities for important work in the law.

If you are interested in becoming a public service lawyer, stay the course. The current roads may be rocky, but there is smoother sailing ahead. How’s that for a mixed metaphor to inspire you!

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On Being a Person of Substance

By now you know that I am not interested in your politics. It is your values that interest me. And one of those values is to stand for things. Be a person of substance. In this case, be a woman of substance.

Today it was announced that Nancy Pelosi, former Speaker of the House of Representatives, will retire soon from Congress. Whatever you think of her politics, you cannot dispute that she is a woman of substance. She holds very strong political beliefs, but she also is willing to reach across the political aisle to get the job done. She knows how to compromise for the greater good, and she does it well.

She has demonstrated her substantial influence throughout her political career — perhaps long before then. The fact is that her children and grandchildren appear to adore her, so she must have been doing something substantial to win their love and affection over so many years.

Nancy Pelosi cares deeply about women. One of my favorite quotes from her is, “I want women to have confidence. So sometimes when I act a little more, shall we say, like myself, it’s because I want them to know it’s okay to assert yourself, to have confidence in what you bring to the table, and also to understand your uniqueness.” In that regard, she lines up perfectly with what I want for young women. What I always have wanted for them.

Here’s one other excellent piece of advice from Nancy Pelosi: “Always be yourself. The authenticity of you is so very important.” In that instance, her advice was not gender specific so I have to believe that she had the same advice for young women and young men.

One thing is certain, Nancy Pelosi was interested in young people and must have been delighted to see so many young Americans go to the voting booths on Tuesday to make their voices heard. Yes, Pelosi’s party had a very good day on Tuesday, but that is not the greater point. What counts is that young men and young women knew how important it is to exercise the valuable franchise they have been given, and they followed through.

I, too, am thrilled to see young people standing up for what they believe in and trying to make a difference. For too long we have heard cries about young people’s lack of interest in anything that is not about them or for them. I, for one, have not believed it, especially as it relates to the young men and women lawyers I meet as part of the Best Friends at the Bar project. And now I hope people can stop carrying that torch of disinterest and herald Tuesday’s example as the change we need and the trend for a future when all young people care for and participate in their government.

If you are a young person who voted on Tuesday, pat yourself on the back. You deserve it. If I was there, I gladly would do it for you.

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Thought For The Week: “You had the power all along, my dear.” Glinda the Good Witch

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